Somebody once told me that,” finding the right person is very hard and very wrong… it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there…you’ll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a ‘right person’ for you…and don’t rush things…’coz somewhere somehow ALLAH is preparing somebody for you.”
You can never be perfect…the person you love can never be perfect…but both of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can be perfect through the both of you. But, no relationship is complete without ALLAH…that’s why we have marriage…it’s a bond not only between you and your loved one…but also with ALLAH.
Our relationship fail not because (s)he’s not the right person…it’s because we expected too much and we decided on our own…let ALLAH do the work…you may call it waiting time…but while you are waiting…pray. Let ALLAH guide you always…
HE knows better. NO, HE knows best.
More frequently than not, we all in a hypocritical manner for some reason.
We call it love when we can’t leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it’s just pity.
We call it love when we’re too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We understood, it’s just we’re too much dependent on them.
We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imaged that if they leave no one would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, it’s just insecurity.
But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn’t something you can buy nor beg. It is real and existing.
You can’t touch it but you can feel it in your heart.
You can’t find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come.
It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don’t forget it also can make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.
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